I’m writing this while studying in the dark of nite.i donno why all of sudden I think I need to blogging and write something that can benefit everyone especially my fellow friends.
Guiding friends? Whose responsible is that? Why we must inculcate that kind of sense in our self?
That was the question that out of blue arose in my mind…
As I’m just coming back from a cross cultural trip,I think the need for me to write getting bigger and bigger and just waiting to explode..
I need to say the truth even though it might hurt other’s feeling but then this is what we call as amar maaruf nahi munkar.We cannot just still see and hoping that they will aware their wrongdoings by theirselves or after getting married.This is a wrong perceptive and a biggest mistake in analyzing the youth cancer.
Before you move on reading this,please do neutralize your mind, put aside any scepticals, don’t feel humiliated and take it as advice instead of criticize.
AURAT
For what are you wearing tudung? Is it just for the sake of accessories?
Do you cover your aurat properly or just wrapping aurat for public show?
Is it so hard to close your aurat properly?I don’t think so.dont make fashion or up to date as the reason for not to do so.Aurat is not a small matter in Islam. It shows or reflect the dignity or pride of someone. I think everyone already aware about that but then still committing the same mistake. Why? Another question is,do you close your aurat just because most of your friends doing so during the lecture or just in UTP.So is it the hukum islam is just applicable in UTP? I dont want to answer it.. answer it in your heart.
MEN-WOMEN RELATIONSHIP
Is it halal for non-married couple to hold hand together.u know it’s haram but still do it.For women,where do you put your dignity as a woman if you allow men to touch your body parts intentionally. Not being anti-social?this is the cliché answer given by them.remember,niat tidak sama sekali dapat menghalalkan cara eventhough you have such a noble intention. Here wisdom plays a very vital role when we socialize or mix(men and women) together. Honestly I felt so ashamed when a friend of mine,a christ ask me about youth muslim’s behaviour and just like being struck by lighting,I was getting numb and blur what to answer him.
SOLAT
Solat is just like a column of the buiding.Can you imagine how a building will look like if it is constructed without putting the columns? Actually, unawarely that will be the house that you will stay in the world hereafter (construction in progress). What make the things worse is we feel nothing when we left the pray. If that happen, meaning that we are encountering a such big break down with our iman..How we are going to fix it again? We may need to consult with a good foreman that will bring you back onto the track of Islam..another thing is one of the ulama’s opinion that I had heard is, any matters that we do that may lead to the haram doings, the hukum of doing that matter is also haram..same goes to when you are study until late of nite and on the next morning you are not praying subuh due to excessive sleepy and lack of sleep ,then the hukum of that study may also haram.
